Hey Gorgeous, Top or Bottom?

Want to move into the gorgeous life and have a little raw kale, butterflies fluttering on your head kind of fun? Of course you do!

Each Sunday I will be posting a new Hey Gorgeous tip that is simple and fun. I am a believer that what we put out we attract and I am looking for some simple and some fun. I want my tribe to feel sexy and gorgeous and inspired. I want you to pay-it-forward when you feel inspired by a tid-bit and create the ripple that the joy of loving yourself up, healthy style brings. Yes, that means we might have to share this with the guys (*wink* at the guys who are here already)!

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Up or down, all or nothing, top or bottom - those are playing small and small is not moving us into gorgeous. We like extremes because they make sense, especially when it comes to negative thinking. It's one way thinking. One way thinking is one way believing. One way believing is our ticket to going nowhere butterflies flutter.

I'm exhausted. I am depressed. Life is hard. Why do I always do this? I am afraid. I'll never be able to do that. I don't want this.

Instead of believing that we have to get from down to up, why don't we surf around for some beauty in between? Maybe you don't want this. Maybe you thought you had a different idea of what your gorgeous life would look like. Truth is, we don't get to decide everything, we only get to jump on our boards, ride the wave and make a decision to understand what this little lesson is teaching us. I prefer to learn. How about you?

Can you change? Hell yes you can. Can you turn it around? If you want to. Is it all or nothing? Not ever.

Let's just stop thinking we have to get from one to the other and start to understand why we are where we are. Once we do that all we need to do is take a little action and things start to turn around, they change as we move into the beauty of what is the now. Surfing in the now. It's the gorgeous life. And you can do it from either position, top or bottom.